Monday, May 16, 2011

The Dos and Don'ts,the present and the past....

not having proper meal for few days, one midnight flight, one package of tidbits, n tats it!! im falling sick AGAIN......
tat kinda reminds me of the dos n don'ts i used to have,and, i missed them.........

-never stayed up till too late~ no matter how much work load i have, how important it is to burn midnight oil for studies, i never stayed up till 2am....that's the principle i used to hv.......rather to wake early than sleep late~

-never ever consume Panadol! avoid seeing doc....used to fall sick for the whole month, reluctant to consult doc, and tat was okay~~ BUT, had that once for a long flight... sick lk hell and that i had to tk note of not being overdose........
had one unknown medicine for a drug addict.......just bcuz i gotta work,n,was in pain...

-do sing k when i feel lk i had to, it always make me feel happy~ BUT, i no longer hv that habit anymore...........

-do eat whatever i like, bcuz, my body used to be able to take it.......

-do ignore ppl that i dont like to talk to


and, now?? sigh~~~ people changed.......all the time...! for good n for bad~

get well soon....

Be content but don't settle for too little..

To whoever followers,it's been a year since I've come to sg.....guess what?time flies~~really does...
a lot of things have happened,hv not happened,etc......plenty of stuff going through my mind each and every day as well. And, the most frequent question that always pop up is,when r u going to quit shuang? >< yea,seriously..had few sleepless nights thinking bout that like,always~

thought I am going to quit my job and b a piano teacher,live my life simple, then there goes this guy saying 'well,a cousin of mine hv a doctorate in music, she's joining SPO, (which yea,i had this silly dream, to join MPO) oh, n she's having a pay that is lesser than urs...' 'screw that, interest will never feed u well,etc....' well, that got me into emo state for a great 5 days...then I got back town, n guess what? I still never would stop practicing...truth is, interest may not feed u well, but u will never know where it will lead you to.......! n one thing im for sure is, it will leads u to happiness =))

been working with ppl not at my age range atm......spoke with this guy in particular, 55 years old (around my mum's age) he reminded me that in Psycho, we used to learn that ppl around this age range, tend to reflect their life, as in what they had achieve in life, those that they don't... if they're pretty much satisfied, they would then bcome arrogant, proud, and of course, happy..
but if they don't, well then, most of the time they would grumble till......the day they couldnt remember things well, or......the day they leave this world...n one thing I realized they would always say is,'what for I save up the money, I can't bring them with me when I die..'
that reminds me of another old man which I so happened to meet in Midvalley. He couldn't stop bragging about how great his son n daughter r doing, how smart is his grandson, and even his wife is dead, he wouldn't stop praising her as a pretty lady, how well they tolerate with each other and hv alwez love each other...
then I hv this guy told me, how hard his life was when he was young, how he save up money to support the family, how he sacrifice for his family......
n okay, gonna end the story here~ but my point is, be good to your parents, especially when they're at this age range.. second, don't end up being the second guy, we work hard, but we hv to enjoy life as well~if u choose not to, don't regret when u get old!!

the thing about being content is..actually for me, for those who've got a job, for those who r still in their studies..
u may be working for a company that brings you a lot of stress, u may b very tired of going to work each day, u may be sick of being a student, sick of what u hv to face every day.. Dudes, im sure if u look up, there're plenty of ppl is having those lifestyle that u want, financial state that u wan, fame that u yearn for..but, sometimes, try to look down, there're also plenty of ppl is being envious of what u r having today!! a job? Education?
So yea,be content of what you have, really.............

and what's with the don't settle for too little?? it's actually from a story that I heard from my fren...b it u're reading or not reading....i would just like to say, if u're so sure that u can make it, and ppl around hv faith in u, y gv up n say that mayb I just don't have what it takes to be? Cause if u do, u're acting like a child, n so, don't blame ur parents for treating u like one~~

oh, n I was reading this book 'rich dad,poor dad', stop reading after topic 3, cuz it stressed me out!! @@
but one thing he mentioned, ther's this one thing about being a couple, it's either he/she would pull you down, block your way to a greater future, or he/she will inspire u to be a better u and work hard to each other's future......
well, I think it's somewhat true cause I've came across lots of time where when ppl hv some great offers,they would always have an excuse of, I dont wanna b apart with my partner....or, my partner dont allow me to do so.......
true? =) ish.....that again, freaked me out!!! =P

cheers~